EMERGENCY RESPONSE GUIDE
Quick response guides for common digital emergencies
1 Contain / 2 Recover / 3 Prevent
1 Contain
Stop the damage immediately
- Do not pay and do not negotiate. Paying rarely ends it – the FBI warns that demands usually continue once someone has paid. Stop responding entirely.
- Do not delete anything yet. Screenshot every message, profile, username, payment demand, and URL first. Capture the full conversation including dates. This evidence is essential for reports and takedowns.
- Block, but don’t retaliate. After documenting, block the account on every platform. Do not threaten, bargain with, or shame the harasser – any response fuels engagement.
- Lock down your accounts. Set social media profiles to private, remove your friends/followers list from public view, and enable two-factor authentication. Harassers mine your contacts to increase pressure.
- If a child is involved, treat it as an emergency now. Contact the NCMEC CyberTipline immediately or call 1-800-843-5678. If there is any threat of immediate harm, call 911.
2 Recover
Get back to normal
- Use takedown services for intimate images:
- Adults: StopNCII.org creates a digital fingerprint of the image and blocks it across participating platforms (Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, Reddit, Bumble, and more) without you having to upload the image anywhere.
- Under 18 (or images taken when you were): Take It Down by NCMEC works the same way for minors.
- Report to the platform. Every major platform has dedicated reporting for sexual exploitation, impersonation, and harassment. Under the federal TAKE IT DOWN Act (signed in 2025, with the platform rules in force since May 2026), covered platforms must remove reported non-consensual intimate images, including AI-generated deepfakes, within 48 hours of a valid request.
- Report to law enforcement. File with the FBI IC3 for sextortion, threats, and extortion demands. For ongoing stalking or threats of violence, also file a report with local police – bring your documentation.
- Request search engine removal. Google and Bing both have forms to remove non-consensual explicit images and doxxed personal information from search results.
- Get support – you are not alone. The Cyber Civil Rights Initiative helpline (1-844-878-2274) offers free, confidential support for image-based abuse. If you are in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). Shame and silence make this harder to get through, so tell someone you trust – especially if you are a teen.
3 Prevent
Stop it from happening again
- Assume anything sent can be shared. The most common sextortion pattern starts with a stranger (often posing as an attractive peer) requesting intimate images within hours of first contact.
- Be skeptical of new online relationships that escalate quickly – rushing to intimate exchanges or moving you to a private messaging app are red flags.
- Remember deepfakes need very little. A few public photos are enough to generate fake explicit images. Limiting public photos reduces raw material, but anyone can be targeted – it is never the victim’s fault.
- Talk to your kids about it before it happens. Teens targeted by sextortion often feel they cannot tell anyone. Make sure they know they can come to you and will not be in trouble.
- Keep profiles private and audit followers on platforms where you share personal photos.
Related Digital Chores: Practice Mindful Information Sharing, Protect Against AI Scams, Privacy Settings Review
Key Contacts
- StopNCII (adults, intimate image abuse): stopncii.org
- Take It Down (minors, NCMEC): takeitdown.ncmec.org
- NCMEC CyberTipline (child exploitation): report.cybertip.org / 1-800-843-5678
- Cyber Civil Rights Initiative helpline: 1-844-878-2274
- FBI IC3 (sextortion, extortion, threats): ic3.gov
- Crisis support: Call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline)
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